For clients who grew up with parents or caregivers dependent on substances or processes, the effects of trauma can be deeply woven into their sense of self. It's common for these individuals to have become so attuned to others' needs that they struggle to recognise their own values and expectations. Often, they've adopted the values and expectations of those around them, carrying these into adulthood and finding themselves frustrated when striving to meet them.

The roles they developed in childhood, such as the Hero, Mascot, Lost Child, or Acting Out Child, continue to shape their core motivations. For instance, a Hero might believe the world works best when they look after everyone, while a Mascot might think it works best when they keep others laughing