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      <image:caption>Mascot The mascot/placater is the one who is cute and funny. You use humour to survive and are also very good at empathising with others and putting yourself in their shoes. Although you can be immature and a bit crazy at times, people generally don't mind that. Confrontation petrifies you, therefore you will do anything to avoid it. You can read more about the dysfunctional family role of mascot here.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>has a very important job, to save the family. You have it all together and believe yourself to be special. At the same time, your deep feelings of inadequacy are well hidden. You feel that nothing you ever do is good enough, but your gift to the family was their pride in your achievements. You present as high-functioning but struggle with perfectionism and self-worth. Click here for more</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>is the invisible one. Quiet. Withdrawn. Surviving by staying unnoticed. Avoiding conflict. Living in the shadows of family chaos. You can be the most challenging to engage initially, as invisibility became your primary survival mechanism. Find out more here</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>is the rebel. The one who acted out. Drew attention away from family dysfunction by creating visible problems. Often misunderstood, deeply hurting. You may present with acting-out behaviours or dependencies of your own. Learn more about this here</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Whatever it is, the way you tell your story online can make all the difference.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>In the dependency world we call the person who is dependent on substances or processes ‘the dependent’. We call the person who looks after them, ‘co-dependent’. All five branches emerge from the same trauma-based root system, showing how these different expressions of co-dependency often originate from similar wounding experiences where these behaviours developed as survival strategies in unsafe or unpredictable environments. The strategies you employed as a child to keep the system going, have been firmed up as branches in adulthood.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Whatever it is, the way you tell your story online can make all the difference.</image:caption>
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